The First Son-in-law

"In fact, this circle is not complicated. It is the people in the circle who complicate it. In other words, the people in the circle are complicated," Qin Feng said with emotion as he put down the pen in his hand. At this moment, he seemed to have become a veteran in the circle who was educating Fung Baihe, a rookie of the new generation.    

    

"Some people nowadays no longer focus on their work. They put it on the welfare of the people. Instead, they thought of ways to get close to the boss. " They are flattering the boss to achieve their purpose by getting close to and praising the boss. He tried everything he could to act cute in front of the boss and gain the boss's good impression. To make the boss remember himself and even say that he appreciated his goal. Qin Feng pointed at the cup of water in front of him and used it to check Fung Baihe's observation ability. Fortunately, Fung Baihe did not disappoint him. She quickly picked up the cup and poured water for him.    

    

"In the past, this phenomenon was publicly known to be abnormal." He took a sip of water. Qin Feng took a sip of water and said, "But now it is different. This phenomenon has changed from abnormal to normal. If you continue to act like you are a real person, you will become a different person in the circle. Not to mention that the boss doesn't appreciate you, even the colleagues around him look down on you. You know, in this way, has already received the unanimous approval of everyone, and has already formed an invisible chain. From top to bottom, it has strung everyone together.    

    

Whether the cadres were good or not, it was not up to the masses to decide. It was up to the bosses who had a certain amount of power, especially the leaders who occupied the various units to decide. As the saying goes, a new official has to be on fire. Those who are on fire are the thoughts and decisions of the original boss. One of the important things is the problem of manpower. If the new ones do not negate and destroy the old ones, how can the new ones be reflected? After all, the old ones are the old ones. The new was new after all. In the past, the old were more powerful than the new, but now it was the other way around. The new ones were more powerful than the old ones. This was an indisputable game rule in the circle.    

    

"I work hard under the boss of the higher ups." This was definitely not a joke. This was not only the principle of the organization, but it was also a specific program of submission.    

    

Only by using capable people could one open up a working situation, achieve political achievements, and have a solid foundation could one have more opportunities to improve. Years of experience proved that in a society that was overflowing with humanity, there could not be few subordinates under the boss, especially not without capable people. Without a few capable and capable people, one would not be able to support the world.    

    

As a superior, it was relatively easy to befriend subordinates. One, it was to show more care and concern. It was to provide more support and protection in the work. Secondly, it was to use his trusted men to befriend him. Third, he would be polite to his subordinates and be loyal to them. They had more subordinates in their hearts. Work would be easy, and he would contribute more to himself. Furthermore, these people were familiar with the rules of the game. The danger was relatively small.    

    

Thus, this formed a mutually beneficial chain of relations. You helped me achieve political achievements, and I helped you gain benefits. In this kind of mutual support, everyone took what they needed.    

    

Didn't you hear that there was a sentence now? No matter how good the job was, it was better than nothing. The boss says hello, what does that mean? It meant that one's ability was no longer limited to work. The boss said that even if it wasn't good, it was good.    

    

Nowadays, some people liked to link work to personal feelings. Their main focus is not on work, but on how to handle the boss's private matters. For some subordinates, his daily work is no longer his job. This was the popular phrase. It was said that business was not easy to handle, and personal matters were not easy to handle.    

    

If you get criticized and kicked, most of you would definitely choose the former. What was the big deal about each batch? It was not like they would lose anything. Besides, the boss criticizes you because he thinks you're one of us. If you're not one of us, he won't approve. But if you get kicked, it's over.    

    

Who would be willing to take the risk of being kicked and only deal with the daily junk? Those who were motivated would spend the time trying to figure out the boss's preferences and inquire about the boss's private affairs. Only by doing these two things well would they have the hope of getting promoted.    

    

The subordinates and the superiors had a good personal relationship. Basically, it was equivalent to having a good working relationship because our national situation was here. There are a lot of big decisions that aren't made in the conference room. It was produced in a dinner game, which forced you to do everything in your power to take the lower route. Or rather, take the larger back route, as long as these routes were connected. That basically means half the success. "    

    

Speaking up to this point, Qin Feng was filled with mixed emotions. He thought that he could turn the tide and uproot this bad habit of his. However, he didn't have the ability to do so. Not to mention himself, even Lin Wanjiang, who was in a high position, probably didn't have the ability to do so.    

    

"Brother Qin Feng, I have heard something about how you can't find the boss's office today, and you won't be able to find your own office tomorrow. " What do you mean by that? " Fung Baihe was indeed a rookie at this time. She knew very little about some things in the circle.    

    

"Haha, this sentence means that you have to report to the boss often. Whether it is your job or some of your own thoughts, it does not matter. " It means that the boss will always see you and remember you. And I can use this method to understand some of the boss's personal matters. Qin Feng thought of a joke when he said that the boss's father, who was a farmer at home, came to visit his son, who was in a high position. However, the boss happened to have a social meeting at noon, so he couldn't eat with his father. However, he was afraid that his father would get angry, so he called his secretary to his side. He asked him to entertain his father on his behalf, but this secretary was the kind of person who didn't have much inspiration in the boss's private life. It was only because he was more comfortable with his work and was also a senior executive relative that he was able to stay by the boss's side.    

    

After receiving this mission, the secretary carefully asked the big boss, "Boss, what's the relationship? How should I address this?"    

    

The boss was very angry and loved the person beside him. He was angry because he didn't worry too much about his life. He loved this person because he was indeed talented. Now that he heard his question, he wanted to tease him. "I have a special relationship with him!"    

    

Special relationship!    

    

The secretary still did not understand. "Boss, what special method?"    

    

The boss just wanted to humor him to the end. "I won't say more about it. Anyway, his grandson is actually my son."    

    

The secretary was not a stubborn person at times, but at this moment, he suddenly had a flash of inspiration. His grandson was actually his son. In other words, he was good with his daughter-in-law! It seemed that he was the boss's second wife's father-in-law. He had to treat this thing well.    

    

The secretary immediately transferred a car from the logistics department to accompany him. She even greeted the restaurant, saying that she was the boss's distinguished guest and that she had to serve him well.    

    

The boss's VIP had arrived, and it was personally accompanied by the secretary. How could it be a joke? The restaurant did not dare to be neglectful. Not only did the dishes taste good, but they were also served by the best waiter in the restaurant.    

    

Under such an environment, the old man quickly lost his way. After drinking three cups of wine, he couldn't keep his mouth shut anymore. "Do you know what my relationship with your boss is?"    

    

"I know, I know," the secretary replied repeatedly.    

    

The old man took a sip of wine. "Then what's our relationship?"    

    

"This..." The secretary stuttered, not knowing what to say.    

    

"What are you afraid of? Say it." The old man picked up a large prawn and stuffed it into his mouth.    

    

"I heard that the boss has a good relationship with your daughter-in-law." The secretary felt that it was better to take a turn. The old man knew that his daughter-in-law was good with her, so he was probably angry. However, if he knew that his grandson was her son, he might flip out.    

    

"Haha, you only know that he has a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, but you don't know that my fucking relationship with her is even better? Every night, we sleep in the same bed!" The old man laughed and poured a glass of wine into his mouth.    

    

Hearing this, the secretary was frightened. She quickly got up and called all the waiters out of the door.    

    

"Let me tell you, no one is allowed to tell me what I just heard. Otherwise, I won't forgive you!" After calling the waiters out, the boss's secretary said righteously.    

    

"Hahaha, it seems like it's very important to build a good personal relationship with the boss." Fung Baihe laughed after listening to Qin Feng.    

    

"Yes, I am afraid that I will encounter awkward things in my life." Qin Feng nodded. However, there was one more thing that was important. " Don't talk nonsense in front of the boss just because you have a good personal relationship with the boss. You can even vent some of the anger in your heart. The boss needs an obedient subordinate. Not a subordinate who was complaining in front of him, especially one who didn't like people who couldn't keep their mouths shut. Who knows, some words might cause the boss to be unhappy and directly 'seal' your mouth. "    

    

"God, it's so troublesome to be in the circle. In the past, I always wanted to be a civil servant, but now it seems that it's better to be at the front desk of the county hotel. At least, you don't need to pay attention to the boss's sunny watch and don't need to worry about the words that don't suit the boss's appetite and get punished." Fung Baihe stuck out her tongue.    

    

"You can't say that. Why are there so many people fighting to be a civil servant now? Also, I heard that there was a rich man who went to be a civil servant in the matter that was exposed a while ago. Why? It's because in some people's eyes. This civil servant is a stable group, a group of people with a 'superior' status. Every year, so many people competed for the national examination. They were all taking the national examination for the purpose of serving the people. Let alone you, I don't believe it, I'm afraid even ghosts don't believe it. Isn't it for the welfare of civil servants and social status?    

    

I remember one time during a comrade-in-arms gathering, when we chatted, people would inadvertently talk about what company they work in. Those who relied on certain connections and opportunities to enter the Office of Public Prosecution and Justice system were pretty awesome, as well as those who entered into the Trade and Industry Taxes. Even if the monthly salary was only a few thousand dollars, But there were a lot of big words to be said, and drinking and smoking were all high-end goods. Although those businessmen had a lot of money, they were still very rich. Moreover, they acted very low-key. I once privately asked a close friend of mine who was in the real estate business. Why did he keep such a low profile? Guess what he said?    

    

He said he always felt that he was inferior to others, like in the real estate business. There were too many departments that needed to be dealt with. That was one that couldn't be less, and that every place he went had to be humble. You have to be a grandson and beg grandpa everywhere, the procedures may just drag you on for a while. If the procedures aren't complete, then you're in trouble. You'll have to drag it out, but the key is that you don't look well. Even a small clerk can yell at you. What can you do with the money in your hands? You can't really be as angry as you say. You can't just throw money at the other party, right?