The First Son-in-law

Small things can be shown to the boss, big things should be hidden, and the deeper the better.    

    

What is the boss? The person who always smiled and tried to please you when he needed you to work for him and work for him, and always used beautiful and pleasant words to move your fragile nerves and make you happy and excited. This person is your boss.    

    

What is a boss? When you don't need any help from him, instead, you need his constant help. When you offer him hospitality, you are always dismissive, absent-minded, and indifferent. You always have an uncomfortable feeling about your talent and always oppress him. He was always an overbearing person who taught you a thing or two. This man is also your boss.    

    

The boss is always the boss, and the subordinates are always the subordinates. The boss is easily approachable with you. You and the boss are always in charge. Don't let yourself get carried away just because the boss is casual with you.    

    

The boss is the kind of person who can shirk responsibility to others at any time.    

    

Some bosses are either angry or in high spirits, and can speak without thinking. They spoke generously and expressed the displeasure in their hearts to their subordinates. They can even vent the anger in their hearts, and you think that they are speaking from the bottom of their hearts. You can open your heart and speak from the bottom of your heart. That's a big mistake. Once the news leaked out, the boss would be able to push everything away. In the end, he was the one who was unlucky. Besides, some bosses had internal conflicts, and you would tie me up. I tie you up. No matter how you fight for it, you can do it. At the moment, the only thing they could do was to watch quietly and not get involved. If you want to hang on to the front, you have to hang on to it. When the time comes, you won't be able to eat. Take a walk.    

    

As a subordinate, the most important thing is to be able to endure. If you have a boss to lecture you, you must have a good attitude. Perhaps you don't think that this boss is worthy of your respect. But on the scene, you have to protect your superior's face. You must not break the rules of the game that everyone is careful to respect. If you really can't do it, then you think: I don't respect him. It's the seat under his ass, it's the black hat over his head. It's the scepter in his hand, everything I did. It's all for the position to see, it's for the position to remember itself. So, the more you look down on people, the more you look down on them. The more you look down on people, the more you need to respect them, the more you need to worship them. You know, the boss doesn't criticize the subordinates. The reason why the boss dared to scold the subordinates as if he was scolding his own children was because he was one of his own. Therefore, sometimes, it was not necessarily a good thing for the boss to respect his subordinates.    

    

It was like this in the circle. If the boss treats you like a pawn, like a grandson, That is to look up to you; If the boss treats you like a grandpa, then you must be a real grandson. "    

    

"Does that mean that the more the boss scolds you, the more he values you?" Qin Feng interrupted.    

    

"That's not necessarily the case. This kind of thing depends on the situation. Some bosses are jealous of talents. This kind of boss doesn't want his subordinates to be stronger than him. " That's why they always find ways to make sarcastic remarks about people like them. Then you have to be extra careful. You must always be alert and clear your mind. Don't let the other party catch you. Otherwise, you will be scolded. Some people with poor mental endurance may become ill due to depression. "As a result, they will lose their will to fight. They will no longer have the determination and courage to go up." Speaking up to this point, When you didn't come, the company had a Section Chief like this. Originally, his talent was more than enough to be a boss, but the vice president who was in charge of him was jealous of his talent. Everything made things difficult for him, and he felt that the vice president was an incompetent person. He felt that he had no real ability, so he went against the vice president who was in charge of him. In the end, the vice president used a certain amount of connections. Not only did he go to his Section Chief position, but he also brought him to another inconspicuous place. Furthermore, the person in charge of that place was this Vice President's big brother. There, this person who had a high chance of getting promoted had been suppressed for five years. Five years. What a good life. Just like that, he was buried. Later on, the person in charge felt that he had talent. He wanted to be promoted, but found that he no longer had an advantage in age, so he could only give up helplessly. Now, that person was over 40 years old. He was still in the position of a clerk, and a handsome young man had already stepped into the ranks of the elderly. Although he was in his forties, his hair was already completely white. In the end, it was because he didn't understand the situation. He did not realize the importance of contradicting the direct boss. A while ago, when I was having a meeting in a certain residence, I met him once. Now, he was doing chores in his office there. The deputy directors in their late twenties can order him around as they please. "    

    

"It's really sad," Wang Yao said. That vice-president is really not a good person. " Qin Feng said bitterly.    

    

"This is not a problem for someone. It is a problem for the whole system under such circumstances. After going through the baptism of the circle, Lin Xuemei is very open-minded about many things. "The boss is an authority. The boss's words were the law of gold and it was an instruction. It was the doctrine and the truth. Now, everyone is talking about the legal society. Promoting the rule of the country by law, what is law? By what law? To put it bluntly, that was what the boss said. The boss's matter was the subordinate's matter, the entire unit's matter. As long as he did what the boss did, it would be the same as doing a good job. This is a common thing. People who don't have a good relationship with the boss can't be the boss. The promotion is actually so simple. The current situation of the manager's place is destined to be 'the boss's decision'. As the subordinate consecrates the boss, the boss gives you the corresponding authority. Or, it was to hold an umbrella above your head to ensure your safety, if one day the boss is not comfortable serving you, The little power in your hands will be taken back by the boss, and the umbrella on top of your head... Maybe it will turn into a sharp sword hanging over your head, or maybe the boss will cut your head off the moment he lets go.    

    

In any circle or unit, there are no contradictions and only benefits. There was no right or wrong but only use. As the saying goes, use. The boss uses his subordinates to do things for him, while his subordinates use his subordinates to gain the corresponding benefits. Using a famous saying in the western business world: First, the boss is always right. Second, if the boss is wrong, Please refer to the first, what does this mean? This means that the boss is not wrong at all. That's because the staff probably thought the boss was wrong, so... Don't ever think of holding the boss's braids unless you really control the boss's dirty little secret. But, even so, Perhaps before you can gain any benefits from controlling this little secret, you might have already been dealt with by the boss for all kinds of reasons. Now... It's not the trend to get sick and hospitalized, but to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, to get sick, Resigned'? That's what you're talking about. As long as the boss wants to take care of you, he'll definitely find a reason to take care of you. And he'll definitely take care of you seamlessly. This is the realm that a person who is in a high position needs to cultivate. "Moreover, there are many realms that have already been attained."    

    

"Yes, I have experienced this deeply." After listening to Lin Xuemei's words, Qin Feng nodded. "I remember when I was in the army, the instructor told us about him taking an exam. One of the questions was like this. It said that the two armies were fighting on the battlefield. As the commander of the front line, you found out that the boss's order was wrong during the battle. Then what should you do? There are three options. One, execute. Two, not execute. Three, report while executing. Sister Lin, What do you say you should choose?    

    

"Of course the first answer is executed," Lin Xuemei blurted out without thinking.    

    

"Why?" Lin Xuemei asked. Qin Feng asked in surprise, "Shouldn't you choose three according to your usual way of thinking?"    

    

"It must be wrong to choose three, right?" Lin Xuemei tilted her head and smiled.    

    

"Yes, the correct answer is to execute it." Qin Feng sighed. "At that time, I heard the counselor give the correct answer. I could not change it for a few days. At that time, I was very confused. What was wrong with the execution while reporting?"    

    

"Of course not. The places all begged the boss to carry out his words. What's more, it was the army. In the army. " Military orders are like a mountain. Do you think the boss's plan is wrong? But what if the boss gave you the wrong plan and asked you to be cannon fodder to buy time for the other troops? So, the correct answer to this question should be to execute. "    

    

"Yes, it's like this. Later, the instructor explained it to us." Qin Feng nodded. "But then, the counselor also said, In fact, this question mostly reflects the fact that the boss's words cannot be disobeyed. Even if you are risking your life, you still have to execute it. And you have to execute it."    

    

"That's right. The boss's hobby is your hobby. The boss's actions are your compass, haven't you heard? The shortcut to promotion in the circle was summed up in three points: "The boss fishes and you go back to your hometown. The boss uses money to split the dirt. The boss is a good woman, you are a prostitute. Once these three points were taken care of, he would be able to closely tie up with the boss. As long as you become a grasshopper with the boss, do you think your promotion will be far away? These days, Who would run away and who would have the most face? Furthermore, there were many people who would intentionally or unintentionally reveal their relationship and background. The reason was so that the people around would look up to you. As she spoke, Lin Xuemei decided to test Qin Feng's eyes. Intentionally or unintentionally, she gently knocked on the cup.    

    

Seeing this, Qin Feng quickly got up and poured the water out of Lin Xuemei's cup. He casually placed a new cup in front of him. At this moment, The relationship between the two of them had somehow become a relationship of promotion and inferiority, and there was not the slightest bit of emotion involved. All of Qin Feng's actions were very natural. He felt that this was what a driver should do and was not pretentious at all. This made Lin Xuemei very satisfied. Qin Feng was able to stay awake and realize that he should adjust his position at all times. This was a very good rule. At least in Lin Xuemei's eyes, it was not bad. Many people relied on their good relationship with the boss and did not take the boss as their master in private. To think that you can be on equal footing with the boss, you are wrong. Even in a situation where there were only two people, the boss still had a strong sense of superiority in his bones. If you really treat the boss as a friend, then you just wait to go home and carry the child!    

    

"We were like this in the army." Putting down the kettle in his hand, Qin Feng continued, "When we first entered the army, The squad leader will ask you if it's any of your business. " Especially during the year when we went to study, it was all about who we went there to fight. And each one was harder than the last. One of my brothers was a field commander, and he thought he was awesome. He walked around with his arms crossed all day long, and he didn't take others seriously. A few days later, a class leader who had gone out to study came back. Hearing that there was such a number one hanging soldier, he didn't say anything. After the beating, the kid shouted for the class monitor to be beaten up. Then he cried and went to look for the team leader. In the end, the team leader was sent back with a few words. Guess what, that squad leader is related to a certain chief of staff in the military. Because he doesn't have enough academic qualifications, he can only be in charge. In that regiment, even the captain has to be wary. It's just that he usually keeps a low profile. "    

    

"Indeed, there are some people who keep a low profile and don't like to reveal their relationship to others. Do you know our unit's Jiang Mi?" Lin Xuemei said with a smile.    

    

"The Finance Department's Jiang Section Chief, why don't you know!" Qin Feng asked in surprise, "Could it be that she has a very powerful background?"    

    

"Yes. Back then, his old master was the head of the higher-ups." Lin Xuemei nodded. "But look at her. She still obediently stays in our company and does a medicinal Section Chief."    

    

"Why is that?" Qin Feng's mouth was wide open in shock. He secretly clicked his tongue in his heart, thinking that there was such an awesome father. And he is from a department with real power. According to his speculation, According to my speculation, I should get a person in charge to do it. Why is it just a Section Chief in a company? ' And this time, he even asked me to compromise for the position of vice president. Isn't this a little too unbelievable?    

    

"Why do you think so?" Lin Xuemei smiled and took a sip of the water Qin Feng had just poured for her.    

    

"I don't know." Qin Feng shook his head. He did not know how rich Jiang Mi was. Looking at her usual clothes, although it was better than the other Section Chiefs, But it's definitely not the extravagant kind, and it's said that the little money she's got in the unit doesn't even dare to show it to her husband. Husband, by the way, Could it be that her husband is in charge? The last time he saw her husband come to pick her up, he seemed to have driven a Charley. Qin Feng really did not understand this time.    

    

"Haha, this is a secret. A secret that very few people know." Lin Xuemei smiled mysteriously and said, "Now is not the time to tell you. In the future, you will slowly understand. What I have to admire is that Minister Jiang is very careful. He is definitely not below my father. He is such a cadre. It's a bit of a shame to only be the executive vice minister of the city's organizational department.    

    

At this moment, Lin Xuemei seems to be a little old and senile, as if she was the old man who used to patrol the south.    

    

Jiang Mi, this beautiful woman who once humbly asked for my help had a secret behind her back? Qin Feng's interest was piqued. Humans always like to seek other people's privacy. Especially when the other person's privacy was more interesting, even though he was a man. Beautiful women. The descendants of the higher ups really made one's imagination run wild.    

    

"Let me tell you, don't have any ideas about Jiang Mi. You can't touch such a woman," Lin Xuemei couldn't help but beat Qin Feng when she saw his absent-minded expression.    

    

"Don't worry, Sister Lin. It won't happen." Qin Feng took back his thoughts that were about to drift away. He smiled and said, "Ever since I have you, all women have lost their luster in front of me."    

    

"Come on, you! I don't know your true nature. Say it. How many times has Hanyu been here?" Lin Xuemei rolled her eyes at Qin Feng and said coyly. However, her heart was still sweet. Women were always easily fooled by sweet words. Although she was the head of the housing bureau, Lin Xuemei was also a woman. Naturally, she had the nature of a woman.    

    

"Hanyu, what Hanyu?" Qin Feng wanted to act dumb. When he saw Lin Xuemei was about to flip out, he quickly changed his words and agreed, "Are you talking about the older sister Sister Hanyu? That friend of yours?"    

    

"Who else could it be other than her?" Lin Xuemei said angrily, "This girl, she thought I did not know. She came to find you for a meeting when she had nothing to do. She thought she did it very well."    

    

Qin Feng's heart skipped a beat. So Lin Xuemei knew everything. But why didn't she say anything? Was it because she cared about my face? Or was it?    

    

"I don't care how many times you've been through, or how far you've progressed. " Anyway, we can't have any more in the future. " At this moment, Lin Xuemei looked like she was protecting her home.    

    

"No, it has not been for a long time." When she said this, To be honest, As a man, no one could withstand Hanyu's charm when she was on the bed. No one could resist Hanyu's madness on the brick bed, especially when she was a mature young married woman. A seductive and charming woman, everything added up. Qin Feng couldn't forget it.    

    

"Did you miss her?" Qin Feng's expression could not hide from Lin Xuemei's Fiery Golden Eyes. Looking at Qin Feng's expression, she knew what he was thinking. She could not help but bend her body and pinch Qin Feng's ear.    

    

"No, no, no." This time, it seemed that Lin Xuemei was really a little angry because no woman could tolerate her man sitting in front of her, but she was thinking about another woman in her heart.    

    

"What do you mean no? Look at your carefree look. It's obvious that you are unable to extricate yourself from it." Lin Xuemei angrily pinched Qin Feng's ear, then sat back in her seat. She turned her head to the side and did not look at Qin Feng.    

    

"Sister Lin, it's all my fault. I really don't dare to think about it anymore. Let alone do it. Sister Sister Hanyu has only come once..." As she spoke, Qin Feng seemed to have realized something. It was already too late for him to close his mouth, because he noticed that Lin Xuemei seemed to be about to roar.    

    

"Are you saying that that woman really came here?" Lin Xuemei said through gritted teeth.    

    

Holy shit!    

    

So it was all a lie just now. She did not know that Hanyu had come at all. Now, everything was exposed. It was over. It was completely over. Qin Feng wished he could slap his ears twice. He wondered why he could not hide anything.    

    

However, he had already said it, and it was too late to take it back. He could only take it one step at a time. Whether it was the wind or the storm, he could accept it however he wanted!    

    

"Mm, she really came here once." Qin Feng gritted his teeth. He told Lin Xuemei about Hanyu coming here once. Of course. Forget about Hanyu giving him money. As a man, Qin Feng still had some pride, he didn't want others to see him as someone else. Although he was not actually being wrapped up, the truth was that he had already been wrapped up.    

    

"You've only been here once?" At this moment, Lin Xuemei felt an inexplicable emptiness. Just now, everything she did was just a joke. She just did not think that there would really be such a thing.